If you're getting bullied by your peers, you need to tell someone. I know it's stressful and you're scared now but once you tell someone you trust like a councilor or a teacher or your parent or even an older sibling, it will feel so much better.
Next thing is to build your self confidence. Now these bullies are tearing you down bit by bit. But let me share with you a secret routine of mine I do. Whenever I feel supremely insecure and essentially like shit, I go to the bathroom, look in the mirror and tell yourself 10 things you love about yourself. Look yourself in the eyes (through the mirror) and tell yourself in a steady voice with confidence that you are an incredible person. That no matter what they tell you, you will always believe in yourself. That you are beautiful and incredible in your own way.
Do this because at the end of the day, your worst enemy is yourself and your best friend is yourself. You are the only one who can cause the most damage to yourself and you alone are the only one who can make yourself stronger. At the end of the day, no matter how close you are with friends and family, they don't know what builds you up or tears you down. Only you do.
And if you feel you have no one there for you, go to this blog. Know that this is a safe haven. Or at least it should be. Just let us know if we're fucking up here. We aren't fucking mind readers. Dani and I have been through a lot and we know a lot. We'll be here for you because we know what it's like in that place. So don't be afraid to ask us for help.
Well, I think that's enough for one post. Remember: You're amazing, bullies can go fuck themselves, I love you, Dani loves you, You are strong enough to do this.
xx
Lolo
Next thing is to build your self confidence. Now these bullies are tearing you down bit by bit. But let me share with you a secret routine of mine I do. Whenever I feel supremely insecure and essentially like shit, I go to the bathroom, look in the mirror and tell yourself 10 things you love about yourself. Look yourself in the eyes (through the mirror) and tell yourself in a steady voice with confidence that you are an incredible person. That no matter what they tell you, you will always believe in yourself. That you are beautiful and incredible in your own way.
Do this because at the end of the day, your worst enemy is yourself and your best friend is yourself. You are the only one who can cause the most damage to yourself and you alone are the only one who can make yourself stronger. At the end of the day, no matter how close you are with friends and family, they don't know what builds you up or tears you down. Only you do.
And if you feel you have no one there for you, go to this blog. Know that this is a safe haven. Or at least it should be. Just let us know if we're fucking up here. We aren't fucking mind readers. Dani and I have been through a lot and we know a lot. We'll be here for you because we know what it's like in that place. So don't be afraid to ask us for help.
Well, I think that's enough for one post. Remember: You're amazing, bullies can go fuck themselves, I love you, Dani loves you, You are strong enough to do this.
xx
Lolo
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