Roughly translated, the title states that I am a Strong Independent Tan Woman. I don't need a guy to make me happy because ain't no body got time fo' dat!! But in all seriousness, you should never feel obligated to date someone because 1) you've never dated 2) peer pressure. You should never feel like you need a significant other because everyone else does and you want that romance. It's okay to want romance, I'll admit it because I love romance but I'm still single and I'm completely proud of it.
Social influences now a days make it seem like the heroine MUST have a love interest or a boyfriend or someone to depend on and have mushy gushy stuff ONLY to have her heart broken. But by the end of the tale, she becomes stronger by whatever that love interest brought into her life. Thats not how real life is. The real life love is shitty ass. I, for one, am a Strong, Independent, Tan Woman who does not need a love interest in order to complete my life.
Would I like boyfriend/love interest one day? Hell yeah. But only when I've became a better person and I know where my life is at. I'm tired of girls thinking that they have to go through high school with boyfriends and dates. You don't have to, it's just kind of a bonus thing you can do. I'm tired of people thinking that their lover will just magically solve all their problems and take care of them and just basically live their lives for them. No! This is real life. This is real shit. To me, real heroines acknowledge their issues and deal with them like strong, intelligent, compassionate young ladies who have the right balance of intelligence and ignorance.
I'm just tired of this fucked up society where people feel like they have to have a love interest in order to be happy. You don't. You can be happy on your own, with 50 cats, with a love interest, or with just family and friends. You can never depend on other people with your happiness because in the end they're just going to let you down.
Well I think that is enough ranting for one night. Love you guys! Night
xx
LoLo
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