So in case you haven't seen my post about pick up lines to use on girls, you should probably go there now. Like Right now. I said that I would post about how to pick up chicks with actions. Well here we go.
Scenario: You like this one chick but you don't know how to tell her. You need help or else someone else will get her.
1. Talk to her about her favorite things. Trust me she will have so much fun and maybe, just maybe, you'll find you have something in common. Or not and then you move on. -_-
2. Compliment her. All girls have some level of insecurities. If she complains about some part of her, make sure to tell her what you feel about it. Be honest though. No one likes someone who lies to help people. Tell her something you love about her.
3. Surprise her. You like her right? You should probably know her favorite food or drink. Possibly favorite color and whatnot. It doesn't even have to be a big thing that you surprise her with. Just give her a nice card on Valentine's Day or buy her favorite snack and give it to her at lunch. Maybe on her birthday buy her that CD she's wanted since it came out. Girls notice guys who listen to them... (so not that many jk lol)
4. Be attentive but not creepy. No one likes someone constantly staring at them. So when they talk, look them straight in the eyes but blink. Please for the love of God, BLINK. Not that much though. Pay attention to her likes and dislikes. Her fears, her dreams.
5. Comfort her like a friend (but secretly hint as a future dating possibility). This step is tricky. You don't want to come on too strong but you also don't want to be flat out friendzoned. People go through rough times and if your girl is going through a hard time, be there for her. Buy her chocolate to make her feel better, listen to her issues. Help her and make her understand that you're willing to be there for her.
6. Cheesy pick up lines. I'm telling you. They make a girl laugh. They don't work right off the bat but they do work. (At least with me). Use one of the pickup lines in my past post and the girl will laugh and feel flattered. Thus, making you funny in her eyes and making you a possibility.
Final Act: GROW A PAIR. Go up to her and ask her out. Nicely though. If she rejects you, don't flip out. Keep pursuing her for a while until either she goes out with you or she rejects you again. You can only ask a girl out about....like two or three times before they want to yell at you and tell you to go away.
If it works, congrats! Be aware that you have to keep up the good boyfriend act all through the relationship. Fake it till you make it. :D
If it doesn't work, I'm sorry and never listen to me about dating. I only ever dated one guy and he broke up with me. -_- lesson learned: never listen to Lauren about dating stuff.
Hope this helped you!
xx
LoLo
Excellent advice, Lauren. But now there's the issue of actually finding that said male specimen that would do those things...
ReplyDeletethis is so true. i didn't even realize.....i just meant it for those rare few who actually want a girlfriend...
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